Wedding photography group shots often get a bad reputation. We’ve all been to a wedding where guests stand around for ages while the photographer arranges every possible family combination. It’s slow, awkward and not much fun.
Some couples even tell me they don’t want group shots at all. But these photographs matter. They become family history. And when they’re done well, they’re quick, relaxed and enjoyable.
Here’s how I approach wedding photography group shots so they’re fast and stress-free.
1. Keep the List Short
It’s a good idea to have a plan before hand, but the secret is to not have a long list of combinations; you really don’t need them all. It’s good to have a plan, but don’t create a huge list. You won’t need it.
I usually suggest around five family combinations. It sounds small, but it’s almost always the perfect amount.
A typical list might be:
• You both with the bride’s parents and siblings
• You both with the groom’s parents and siblings
• You both with just the bride’s parents
• You both with just the groom’s parents
• One or two extras, like grandparents or siblings only
If you want a big “everyone” group photo, we can do that too.
2. Set Family Expectations Early
If you know certain family members will want input, talk to them before the wedding. It helps a lot.
You could ask them to choose two “must-have” photos. That keeps everyone happy without creating a huge list.
3. Pick the Right Time
I aim to take group shots straight after the ceremony. Everyone is still together, still behaving, and expecting a bit of formality.
If we leave them until later, someone always disappears to the bar, the loo, outside for a cigarette, or off to change shoes. That’s what slows things down.
We can move the timings if needed, but straight after the ceremony is usually the fastest option.
4. Schedule Time
I’m quick, but I still need a little time.
Plan for 15–20 minutes, depending on your list.
Also allow extra time for confetti and all the hugs you’ll get after the ceremony. Those moments are lovely, and you shouldn’t feel rushed through them.
5. Assign One Key Person
Choose one confident person to help gather family members. They may not be needed, but having someone who knows who’s who is incredibly useful.
6. Capture Friends Too
I often ask couples if they’d like group shots with their friends. These are more relaxed and usually happen in the evening before the music starts, or even on the dance floor. A photo with your uni mates or work friends is always worth having.
7. Have Fun With It
Group shots don’t have to feel stiff. I photograph them in a relaxed, natural way. There’s always banter, laughter and a lot of personality. Nothing overly formal.
And That’s It
I hope this blog post helps you feel more confident about planning your wedding photography group shots.
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